It’s easy to “BE here now” when we’re in meditation
But what about in our waking state in this earthly dimension?
When our minds are reacting to the appearances we see,
And creating a reality based on our programming.
When we have an over active nervous system,
From carrying past […]
People pleasing is a survival strategy that many of us started doing when we were children. We’re not bad or wrong for creating it, in fact, we’re pretty damn smart, in a sense we needed to, it’s how we got our needs met for love, acceptance and safety.
Some of the reasons why […]
Is the pain of the past keeping you from living freely, loving openly and enjoying your life journey? Are you someone who’s read all the self help books, gone years to talk therapy but nothing seems to be changing?
If this is you, I get it, that was me too and I started […]
Do you ever wonder what creates anxiety and why so many people are anxious?
Anxiety doesn’t just come from a thought we’re thinking, it comes from inside our body—from our internal patterning, where unresolved trauma, deep shame, and painful experiences are still “running.”
It’s a “trance” that we fall into when […]
Did you know that the root cause of suffering for many human beings is believing that something’s wrong with you and me?
Psychiatrists and therapists offices are filled with people who are carrying this “false belief” most often stemming from childhood experiences like trauma, hurt and pain, doctors labeling us with depression or […]
We all have that critical and judgmental voice who tells us that we’re not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, etc. It criticizes, judges and tells us we don’t do anything right.
It calls us stupid, it compares us to other people, it speaks harshly to us about ourselves and about our bodies. It […]
Have you ever heard the expression “arrested development?”
Have you ever wondered why many of us, during our adolescence start to experience a “major challenge?”
This is when we start smoking, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, experience eating disorders, self harming and/or experiencing things like depression and anxiety.
Why is this? It’s a […]
I’m finally beginning to understand more and more about why people are afraid to feel and/or express their “negative” or even sad or angry feelings, it’s because they don’t feel safe and/or social consequences are “at stake.”
If we’ve had traumatic experiences along the way, then those traumatic experiences are most likely “attached” to our […]
Emotional regulation is the ability to “manage/respond to” our emotions rather than our emotions “managing” us.
What does that mean? Human beings are stimulus response machines, something happens and we re-act/respond according to our “conditioned feelings” that relates to the situation that’s happening.
We don’t do this consciously, it’s an automatic mechanism stemming from […]
I remember when I first became consciously aware of my body, I didn’t like it, I projected all of my negative feelings onto it and slowly destroyed it bit by bit.
I constantly ate as a child and I was teased for being fat and ugly. Then at age 15 I became anorexic and starved […]
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_____________________________________Debra’s Blog
- How to Connect With Your Truth
- How to Experience True Healing
- Waking up to your authentic expression, a poem written through me
- How To Heal From People Pleasing
- Is the pain of the past keeping you from living freely, loving openly and enjoying your life journey?
- Do You Struggle With An Eating Disorder(s)?