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We “try hard” to be a “perfect human” have the perfect body, looks and expression so we can be accepted by others and fit into what society says is “normal”
We “try hard” to have the “perfect relationship” so we can feel the LOVE we never got from our parents or caretakers.
We “try […]
It’s easy to “BE here now” when we’re in meditation
But what about in our waking state in this earthly dimension?
When our minds are reacting to the appearances we see,
And creating a reality based on our programming.
When we have an over active nervous system,
From carrying past […]
What does “waking up really mean?”
Returning to the essence of our BEing/our authenticity.
It’s embracing our shadows and our light,
It’s seeing through compassionate LOVEing eyes.
When we start to “wake up” we start to heal
Through noticing our beliefs and our unconscious deals.
We become aware […]
People pleasing is a survival strategy that many of us started doing when we were children. We’re not bad or wrong for creating it, in fact, we’re pretty damn smart, in a sense we needed to, it’s how we got our needs met for love, acceptance and safety.
Some of the reasons why […]
Do you struggle with an eating disorder(s); whether it be anorexia, bulimia, over eating, or even compulsive exercise?
I struggled with all the above, when I was a child I constantly ate to cope with being screamed at and to soothe my loneliness and uncomfortable feelings + I was teased for being fat and […]
Did you know that the root cause of suffering for many human beings is believing that something’s wrong with you and me?
Psychiatrists and therapists offices are filled with people who are carrying this “false belief” most often stemming from childhood experiences like trauma, hurt and pain, doctors labeling us with depression or […]
We all have that critical and judgmental voice who tells us that we’re not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, etc. It criticizes, judges and tells us we don’t do anything right.
It calls us stupid, it compares us to other people, it speaks harshly to us about ourselves and about our bodies. It […]
Have you ever heard the expression “arrested development?”
Have you ever wondered why many of us, during our adolescence start to experience a “major challenge?”
This is when we start smoking, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, experience eating disorders, self harming and/or experiencing things like depression and anxiety.
Why is this? It’s a […]
Emotional regulation is the ability to “manage/respond to” our emotions rather than our emotions “managing” us.
What does that mean? Human beings are stimulus response machines, something happens and we re-act/respond according to our “conditioned feelings” that relates to the situation that’s happening.
We don’t do this consciously, it’s an automatic mechanism stemming from […]
I remember when I first became consciously aware of my body, I didn’t like it, I projected all of my negative feelings onto it and slowly destroyed it bit by bit.
I constantly ate as a child and I was teased for being fat and ugly. Then at age 15 I became anorexic and starved […]
Awakening To Unconditional Love:
Transformational Healing
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Poetic Healing
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I AM LOVED SHIRTS
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