People pleasing is a survival strategy that many of us started doing when we were children. We’re not bad or wrong for creating it, in fact, we’re pretty damn smart, in a sense we needed to, it’s how we got our needs met for love, acceptance and safety.
Some of the reasons why […]
Do you struggle with an eating disorder(s); whether it be anorexia, bulimia, over eating, or even compulsive exercise?
I struggled with all the above, when I was a child I constantly ate to cope with being screamed at and to soothe my loneliness and uncomfortable feelings + I was teased for being fat and […]
We all have that critical and judgmental voice who tells us that we’re not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, etc. It criticizes, judges and tells us we don’t do anything right.
It calls us stupid, it compares us to other people, it speaks harshly to us about ourselves and about our bodies. It […]
Anxiety is a response that comes from our nervous system; telling ourselves to just calm down just makes it worse and judgment often occurs.
Sure, we can do deep breathing to help our bodies come back into harmony, but until we understand what’s creating the anxiety and bring compassion, LOVE and a new understanding […]
Some of us grew up in families where our feelings and what we were experiencing were denied or pushed aside, what some people “gaslighting.”
What is that? When someone, often our caregivers/parents, sows seeds of doubt in our minds that make us question our own sense of personal truth and reality. They did a good […]
I remember when I first became consciously aware of my body, I didn’t like it, I projected all of my negative feelings onto it and slowly destroyed it bit by bit.
I constantly ate as a child and I was teased for being fat and ugly. Then at age 15 I became anorexic and starved […]
When things don’t seem to be working for you like they used to, something has shifted in you, you’re ready for something new. Don’t fight it or judge yourself, this is actually a good thing, something magical is happening.
You’ve expanded internally and now it’s time to experience that expansion in your reality.
So […]
Where do our feelings come from? Are we consciously choosing them or are they “automatic?” Are they a response to what we’re seeing or do they come from what we’re believing? I know, I’m getting ya thinking eh?
Did you know that our thoughts and feelings are coming from our programming, conditioned/automatic responses to certain […]
Have you ever wondered why one minute you’re happy and the next minute you’re sad and one minute you feel invincible and the next minute you say “I can’t?”
What’s going on? How do our emotions go up and down in a nano second? Can you predict your next thought or feeling without controlling it? […]
Anorexia, bulimia, compulsive eating and compulsive exercise, are these friends or enemies? Some might say an enemy, but if that we’re true, why would we hold on so tight?
At age 14 I was diagnosed with anorexia and bulimarexia and at age 15 I entered my first treatment center weighing 80 pounds. For the […]
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- How to Connect With Your Truth
- How to Experience True Healing
- Waking up to your authentic expression, a poem written through me
- How To Heal From People Pleasing
- Is the pain of the past keeping you from living freely, loving openly and enjoying your life journey?
- Do You Struggle With An Eating Disorder(s)?