When we’re children and we’re not getting your needs met, the intelligence within us will find a way to get them met and sometimes it will be in self destructive ways. Our psyche is very smart and it works on survival and will do anything to get our needs met. In my opinion the needs for LOVE and safety are the most desiring needs for us human beings. Once our psyche finds a way to get those needs met, it will do whatever it can to hold on to that pattern or behavior. As we grow up, we continue those patterns, most often in ways that aren’t serving us physically, but are serving us emotionally. For instance, I struggled with anorexia for over 23 years, I was abusing myself and my body, I didn’t want to let it go and I didn’t really understand what the fear was about. Through my healing I discovered that my needs for LOVE, certainty and safety were being met. You might say, “What, how was your need for LOVE met if you were destroying your body?” That’s a great question, here’s what I came to understand, the need for LOVE was met by people being concerned about me and gave me attention because I was “sick” I was able to be cared for in ways that I wasn’t otherwiseUse of multiple medications was also associated with increased cardiovascular events, i.e., http://downtownsault.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Target-Market-Housing-Analysis.pdf levitra online heart attack, irregular heartbeat, and heart failure.. Most often an illness, addiction and even accidents are created subconsciously, like I said, our psyche’s are very clever and will create ways to get our needs met. The more we do that pattern, the more it get’s engrained in our nervous system and becomes an automatic response. Soon we’re hooked and we don’t understand why it’s so hard to stop the behavior. By looking deep within, you’ll find what’s really going on, I call this the hidden intention, some may call it secondary gain. Whatever you call it, it has tremendous power until you find other ways that you are able to get your needs met.