With all the self help books, programs and workshops why isn’t everyone able to create the life they desire? Why is it challenging for one person to “manifest” money or the things they want and for someone else it’s easy peasy?

Is it luck or/and part of their journey? Perhaps, however, there’s so much more to the story. Who are we anyway? A collection of thoughts, feelings, beliefs and ideas we picked up from our family and society. We’re also spiritual, flesh and bone and a part of us that’s unknown.

Our thoughts, feelings, experiences and beliefs created our self image and our self image is creating our reality. We can choose conscious thoughts and shift our feelings in a way that makes us feel good today, but this is only a temporary fix. Our subconscious is running the show, stemming from what we hold below.

If we have any unresolved issues, past hurts or wounds, these energy blockages are filtering how we’re seeing and how we’re living.

Say for instance you want to be successful and you were told when you were younger that you were stupid and you’ll never amount to anything. That became your self image and we’ll always act in accordance with our self image and in this case, you’ll push success away because it doesn’t match who you believe yourself to be, get it?

There’s an unresolved issue going on internally that needs to be LOVED, healed and shifted so your energy can flow more naturally and you CAN achieve what you say you want to achieve and BEcome the person who’s living your dream.

Or, let’s take another issue like money, ya, this is everyone’s favorite, but is it really? Maybe consciously, but if we have any beliefs that we’re selfish if we have money, that we’re not worthy or that having money is a bad thing and we won’t be accepted or LOVED by our family if we have it, then we’ll subconsciously push it away, no matter how much visualizing and affirmations we do today.

Contrast in our lives is showing us subconscious interference inside. It’s showing us where our self image isn’t in alignment with what we say we want to have. Our self image is everything, it controls our reality. It’s running in the background of our minds and telling us what to look for and find based on who we believe ourselves to be.

It filters the way we see our reality. What do I mean by this? When I was younger I was teased for being fat and ugly; being fat and ugly was how I started seeing myself and hating myself for it. I looked for reasons why people didn’t like me (which was a projection of the ways I felt about me) and this made me feel isolated and lonely and I also sabotaged any relationship where someone “liked me” because it didn’t match my self image of who I believed myself to be.

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At age 13, I became anorexic and my weight dropped down to 80 pounds, in other people’s eyes I looked emaciated and way too thin, in my eyes, I saw myself as a 300 pound ugly woman. My self image that was created when I was younger was filtering what I was seeing and creating my reality. I also didn’t feel worthy of being alive so anything “good” wasn’t allowed in my life. I would make money, but I didn’t allow myself to spend it on me, it had to be spent on others or put in the bank. I looked for ways people were being “mean” to me and I found it, because “I wasn’t deserving of LOVE.”

Some people have a victim self image, they believe that everyone “does things to them.” They don’t take personal responsibility for themselves, the blame is out there and they think life isn’t fair. All these ideas and ways of BEing is stemming from our core beliefs that are asking for acknowledgement, LOVE, healing and shifting.

How do we know what our self image is? Self awareness is key. Noticing when we judge others can lead us to our shadows. Noticing our behaviors and how we’re living our lives, will show us what’s going on inside. Until we heal our emotional wounds; the original cause that created our self image, we’ll keep seeing, experiencing and filtering our reality through those perceptions and points of views.

Everything is energy and how our energy flows inside will create how we experience our lives. We create meanings about what we experience and see, consciously and subconsciously, the challenging thing is to notice what’s going on internally, the hidden meanings that we’re not seeing, we’re just struggling in our career, life, LOVE and connecting with others, making money, manifesting what we want. etc. and we really don’t know why.

If we’re having issues in our outer, it’s showing us our inner issues. In order to have what we say we want to have, instead of doing the math, we need to see what’s going on internally, heal the inner debris by bringing LOVE to the parts that are hurting and shift our energy in a way, where we’re seeing and feeling our TRUTH today.

Once we have an image of WHO we want to be in thoughts, feelings and behaviors, we need to start making new grooves subconsciously. This means visualizing and practicing being this way and healing anything that’s present today or is shown to us along the way. We’ve created the ways we’re being through repetition of thinking, feeling and doing and changing often takes doing the same.

Since we’re the ones who created how we are today, we’re the ones who have the power to change it. No one can do this for us. First we need to make a conscious choice to heal the past and call back the parts we once disowned, this helps us to BEcome whole. When we’re integrated our energy is present today, which allows us to create what we want more easily with our souls energy and we experience even more peace, LOVE, joy, wisdom and creativity.

Alignment in heart/mind/body and soul allows us to BEcome whole.