How to feel okay with asking someone on a date
Why does it feel “risky” to approach somebody you like? Ya know, ya get those butterflies inside and ya want to talk to them but at the same time you want to hide.
Maybe this is true or not true for you. The idea that you could be rejected comes into play, but once you realize that everyone see’s the world through what they have inside, you’ll no longer fear the things you we’re afraid of before.
What do I mean? If you approach someone, they automatically create a pre-conceived idea about you based on their past experiences. Your looks or your energy is going to trigger something in them and they’ll either invite you in or grin and say “go away.”
Does this have anything to do with you? Well, maybe, but from my understanding you really can’t change someone’s opinion of you until they really get to know you and realEYES that you’re not their past experiences in disguise, get it?
Many people run away from what they really want. Perhaps deep inside they don’t feel good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, worthy etc. Perhaps they just don’t feel enough and perhaps these ideas might be going on inside of you too, if this is, bring LOVE to that part of you.
Why are we attracted to certain people? Have you ever thought about that? Is it their looks that got you hooked? Looks can be pleasin but that only lasts for a season. Once ya get to know the person, their values and who they BE, then you can see if they’re the “right” ones to share your life with on this magical journey.
In my opinion, there is devensec.com cialis online no one right way to quit but some basic principles need to be looked at.
Loving creates a great deep soul connection and yes, it’s something I recommend, this is seeing/feeling with your heart and if you’re like me, you probably have this with many BEings.
I have a new saying “Don’t judge a book by its cover, they might become your next lover.” What if, just for today, you saw everyone with fresh eyes. What do I mean? Is this the same as seeing with your heart? Sort of, but not really, it’s more of seeing with an open heart by healing the inner debris so you can really see clearly.
Relationships; whether they’re sexual or not have a great effect on our psyche. Having that special someone to spend your life with can add so much more joy to your life as well as help you grow and evolve.
Of course the most important relationship is with beautiful you, start here first, this will quench your thirst. Once you’re in a loving relationship with you, it will be easier to receive LOVE from others too. Make loving yourself familiar, practice this every day, make this BE your natural way and watch the “right” person come your way.
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