How To Deal With Challenges
Have you ever experienced a challenge with a friend, a family member or a lover and you talked about it after and you both had two different views? Why is this? Well, we don’t see the world as it is, we see the world as we are; what we believe about ourselves and the world around us. Think about it, every situation is neutral, we make up stories about what it means to us given our perception and point of view, and there are infinite ways to view anything eh?
Here’s one for ya. Say for instance you met someone and you instantly fell in LOVE. In your mind you started planning the wedding and your lives together. They on the other hand just thought you were a cool person and wasn’t interested in having a LOVE relationship with you. Urgghhhh, I’ve been there and it sucks. But hey, us humans are funny eh? So, what I’m conveying is that what we perceive comes from what we believe and and our view of reality. We say what our situations means and that’s how we experience it, get it?
So, in this instance, with falling in LOVE and already getting married in our minds and then we find out that that person isn’t interested in the same experience, we can view it in so many ways. We might say “I’m ugly, that’s why they don’t like me.” Or “It’s just not the right time.” Or “They’ll come around.” Or “The universe is helping me because someone more suited for me is on the way.” Or “Why doesn’t anyone ever want to be with me?” Can you see how we can experience anything and everything in our lives by what we say it means given our beliefs?
I once heard someone say “It’s foolish not to win in your story.” But what is winning? Someone else is losing? Nope, to me it’s seeing both or all involved as winning, get it? It’s not about making others wrong so we can look good, feel okay or feel empowered about the situation. It’s about honoring everyone’s point of view and allowing LOVE to flow through.
Most people want to be “right” and for me, I really don’t care, I choose peace over trying to make my point of view “right.” Who’s to say what’s right or wrong, that’s just another man made song. In the end it doesn’t really matter, what matters is how we handle our situations, what we learned and whether LOVE was or wasn’t seen, for yourself and other BEings.
Source from? You probably have not seen the primary collection or read the order cialis manga, haven’t any fear.
Is there something in your life today that this is relating to? What is it showing you that you’re believing about yourself, society or what you can achieve? What would happen if you were to see that both sides are valid for the person seeing. That we’re all doing the best we know how given our conditioning and preferences.
Hey, am I saying not to honor yourself and your point of view? Nope, that isn’t what I’m saying at all. What I’m inviting you to do is to notice what you’re saying it means about you. Are you believing in lies or are you seeing through the universes eyes? All points of view are valid and true, notice what’s going on inside of you. It’s NOT really about the other person anyway, it’s about learning how to view our situations in more loving ways.
We live our lives by the meanings we give stemming from what we believe, like I said above; every situation is neutral. We make up stories about what they mean stemming from what we believe and this is what’s creating our reality. EVERY situation is helping us to BE more loving to ourselves and others, they’re helping us have heartfelt connections with our sisters and brothers. They’re helping us clear a way so we can BE at peace today. We always have a choice to choose LOVE or fear, what are you going to choose my child my dear?
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