Finding What Works For You
Have you ever gone to a seminar, read a book, signed up for a coaching program etc. to “succeed” in the ways that these people are teaching? You’ve followed their guidance but your life isn’t how you thought it would be by doing so, or maybe it is. However, to keep to the intention of what I’m sharing, let’s say you’re one of those people who have tried to live your life through following other people’s ways and it hasn’t worked for you. Why is this? Well, people often teach from their state of consciousness, I do too, however, it might not resonate with you or maybe it does or maybe it doesn’t yet. We can BE inspired by other people’s ways, but it’s important to listen to what our inner BEIng has to say.
So many of us have given our power away to others and we’re no longer thinking for ourselves. When we were younger we were taught that mommy and daddy know better then we do, and they do to a certain extent. They know what might keep us safe like not walking in the middle of the street, taking care of our health like brushing our teeth, learning our language by teaching us the ABC’s and 1,2,3’s etc. But no one can tell us what’s going on inside, what’s natural for us or what we came here to do, that comes from connecting with the truth of YOU.
If you’re like me, you learned that “success” meant doing what made your family happy and making tons of money. When I decided to go to art school in 1993, my father criticized me and said “that’s a stupid idea, no one can make any money doing art.” I didn’t care, I LOVED creating and I went to school to be a visual merchandiser and yep, I did pay for school myself “because” it didn’t go along with my families wishes. If I chose law school it would have been paid for by my family.
One of my natural gifts is writing, the energy seems to flow naturally, especially with poetry. I never took a class, it’s not something that I learned from the world, it flows from my heart and soul. In 2003 I graduated from hypnosis school and in 2011 I graduated from a spiritual psychology program. Even though it was something I wanted to learn, I couldn’t grasp their teachings, it was too much head, not enough heart. (At least that was my experience) I’m a natural born healer, it’s through my own healing journey that I learned ways to help myself and now use it to help others. Technique is okay if that works for you, it doesn’t for me, there’s too much thinking involved and it takes me out of the moment of BEing. What does work for me is letting my energy naturally flow and feeling into the moment. This is true whether I’m with a client, writing, doing my own healing, making videos, dancing, etc.
There’s so much drive towards success, but what does “success” really mean? Each of us will have a different point of view, to me success means letting our true Selves BE seen. It means honoring our heart and soul today and letting it lead and guide our way. We’ve been hypnotized to believe that success is something we need to achieve, that we’re not successful just BEing. What if where you’re at today was perfect for you, how would you feel what would you do?
Once we make peace inside, we’re able to listen to our own inner wisdom and let it lead and guide. Moving from our conditioned mind into our heart is a really great place to start. Being open to expanding what we know, brings more possibilities in our earthly show. Healing at the deeper level of our BEing allows us to easily and naturally dance and sing. When we bring LOVE to the parts that are hurting inside, we feel more peaceful on this earthly ride.
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Here’s an example on what I’m conveying. Awhile back I went to a seminar and the person leading it shared about how he doesn’t plan for his events, he just gets up and does it and he suggested to his audience that that do the same. Well, this guy has been on stage since he was 5 years old and now he’s around 45 years old. Ya, he doesn’t need to plan, it’s natural for him. If someone’s just starting out, they’re often filled with fear and doubt. Our subconscious needs evidence that we’re okay; how do we do that? By taking steps in the direction that we want to go. By becoming aware of the issues that arise along the way, questioning our beliefs, perceptions and point of view and shifting it to match what we know to BE true, Once we do, alignment takes place and smile starts to form on our face. We’re flowing more easily and naturally, living in alignment with who we were created to BE.
Even if we follow someone else’s way, we don’t know what will happen anyway. The mind tries to control, our spirit goes with the flow. How do you know that what happened by you visualizing, doing affirmations etc. wouldn’t have happened if you didn’t do that? Ya don’t, Life is a mystery.
A lot of us stop before we even start because we project all kinds of fears “out there.” Even if when we feel confident, there’s no way that we can know how things will turn out, however, the first step is to remove the fear and doubt. By doing so, we’ll be able to see new ideas that might not be available to us yet given our vibration. It’s all a journey into the unknown, when we relax and trust a way is always shown. There’s no right or wrong way to do anything, what’s right for you will come from the guidance inside of you.
Here’s another example for ya, imagine that you’re walking on a trail, the furthest you can see is about 50 feet in front of you because the trail twists and turns, has hills to go up and down, bushes to go through etc. I think you get the point. You know your destination, but getting there has all kinds of directions that you’re not familiar with, but you’re on the trail and you believe it’s taking you where you want to go. It’s the same thing with our goals, we know the outcome, okay, great, now we’re on the path. The path has many twists and turns along the way, all we need to do is take a step at a time following our inspiration and our internal guidance. The outcome might not look the same as we thought it would, however, it often turns out even better, not only that, we’ve healed, we’ve learned and we’ve grown along the way. What a Fricken AMAZING experience eh?
You can do this, I believe in you and I LOVE YOU
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