Debra is a warm and compassionate healer who helps you reconnect with your true self.
With a gentle and nurturing presence, she creates a safe space for healing, growth, and self-discovery
My Healing Journey
As a child, I was deeply sensitive, especially to other people’s emotions. I could feel when someone was sad or hurting, and I did everything I could to help them feel better. At the same time, I felt like something was wrong with me and no matter what I did or said, it was never good enough.
Deep down, what I really wanted the most was simply to be loved for who I was,
not for what I did or for who others wanted me to be.
I often felt alone, criticized, and misunderstood. Beneath the surface I lived with
ongoing anxiety, guilt, shame and a deep sense of unworthiness.
From my earliest memories, food was how I learned to soothe myself; it was
my comfort when I felt sad, anxious or afraid, and my friend when I felt lonely.
At 13, my doctor told me to go on a diet and at 15 I was diagnosed with anorexia. What followed was over two decades of therapy and treatment programs that focused primarily on managing symptoms, rather than addressing the deeper emotional wounds and painful life experiences underneath.
I believe this is why I remained stuck in patterns of disordered eating, people-pleasing, self criticism, self-sabotage, feelings of shame, guilt, anxiety, depression and a persistent sense of unworthiness.
What I needed wasn’t to be fixed or told to change. I needed to feel like I mattered; to feel seen, understood, and cared for. I needed someone to say “Of course you feel this way given what you experienced, there’s nothing wrong with you. You are very wise for the ways you learned to cope and protect yourself. We can gently explore this together and help those parts of you
who are afraid, feel seen, understood, cared for, loved and safe.”
Over time this is what began to happen within me. I started to meet myself with more kindness
and compassion, and connect with the parts of me that carried my deep wounds,
the moments that shaped how I saw and felt about myself, others and the world.
It was very powerful for me when I began to truly understand that there was nothing inherently wrong with me. The patterns I was carrying, how I thought, felt and responded were shaped for a reason, they were ways I learned to cope, protect myself and survive what I was experiencing, even when those patterns became harmful and no longer served me.
My own journey has been about learning how to offer myself and my inner child
the love, care and understanding I always wanted and needed.
Along the way, I began learning how to listen to my inner world, how to understand
my emotions, my triggers, and the way my body communicates with me. As this
relationship deepened, I began to feel more at ease within myself.
This is why I’m so passionate about inner child healing and the work I do. It’s not a quick fix,
and it’s not about fixing ourselves at all. It’s about learning how to meet ourselves
with kindness, gentleness and presence in ways we’ve always wanted and needed.
Real healing for me isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about coming back to
who we’ve always been with compassion, safety and unconditional love.
Why I Do This Work
I tried everything I could to feel better. I read self-help books, did spiritual practices and
explored different modalities to healing. While they helped in some ways, it was the
deeper inner work and connecting with my inner child that truly helped me the most.
As I began building a more compassionate and understanding relationship with myself, I no longer felt I needed to earn love, or prove my worth, or be someone different. I now accept all of me, even the parts others might not understand. Even the parts that feel and experience life differently.
I’ve found peace in being myself and flowing with my natural energy.
My work is shaped by both my lived experience and study. I have a degree in Spiritual Psychology
and advanced training in clinical hypnosis. But, more than anything, I know what it feels like
to live in fear, feel alone, overwhelmed, and carry deep shame.
My wounds and scars became valuable sources of wisdom, compassion and love.
It is from this space that I now get to support you, not by trying to fix you,
but by supporting you in creating a more compassionate, kind and caring
relationship with yourself and your inner child.
My Approach to Healing
I believe healing unfolds when we move from forcing ourselves to change
and begin meeting ourselves with kindness and understanding.
The parts of you that feel anxious, overwhelmed, ashamed, or stuck
are not broken, they’re doing their best to protect you.
When you learn to listen to those parts, instead of fighting them,
something beautiful starts to happen. You begin to reconnect with your worth,
your authentic voice and a deeper sense of safety that comes from within.
If something in you is quietly asking for support, you don’t have to have it
all figured out or be fully ready, just a willingness to begin.
And, you don’t have to do this alone, I’m here to meet you where you are, gently,
compassionately and with care. To walk alongside you at a pace that feels safe for you.
Schedule your session today and begin your journey toward love, freedom, and inner peace.